Anonymous said: Ok so I came to my new school where my best friend was and we both made friends with this guy and recently I started getting a crush on him and now me and her are basically his best friends but she liked him too and liked him before I did and he's kinda shy but his friend said me and him look like a couple. I want to go out with him but she also really likes him and I'm scared to ask him out. I don't even know if he likes me but sometimes he acts like it. What are your thoughts on the situation?
My thoughts are always the same when it comes to friends and guys. Friends come before guys.
If you want to keep your friendship with your best friend (girl) thab the least you have to do is talk to her about wanting to ask him out and basically get her approval, epsecially since you know she likes him first.
Going behind her back will probably end your relationship with her - The only question here is - Is he worth it?